Someone is monitoring my google search history, google maps history, text chats, certain apps such as door dash and reporting all their findings to my wife via an anonymous number. I’m not doing anything suspicious or illegal but I don’t know why they feel the need to notify my wife through an anonymous number of all my phone activities. I have Norton and mcafeee installed . Is there a Better way to detect spyware on my phone or is there something else on my phone?
I’ll ignore the fact that someone is reporting information to your wife. That alone needs a separate discussion and is something you need to work out personally in your relationship.
On the technical aspect: Someone may have access to your accounts. Start by doing a factory reset and wiping your phone. Set it up fresh, and then change all your passwords, especially your google/gmail password, and enable 2 factor authentication wherever possible.