Every screen is different. You’ll just have to toy with it until you find something that’s close enough. If you want the screens to be exactly the same, then get two of the exact same screens. And no, there is no software that can do this better, you’ll just have to tinker until you find something that works.
Event code 41 only means the system shut down, nothing more. Further, Event Viewer isn’t going to give you much, if any information about why your computer is crashing. Run this for me and then give me the results https://rtech.support/docs/factoids/get-specs.html#what-is-get-specs