Is there any way I can stop google and youtube from seeing what I am doing or ‘talking’ to each other about what I am doing at least? Its been happening enough that I am just seriously weirded out and not comfortable, I thought I would ask here and hopefully get some help.
Use FreeTube. It is a fully open source YouTube client which fetches videos from invidious which makes u anonymous while accessing YouTube and allows you to “Subscribe” to individual creators so you can check on what they post.
More here: freetubeapp.io